{"id":12715,"date":"2019-01-03T15:33:44","date_gmt":"2019-01-03T23:33:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lightbearers.org\/blog\/?p=12715"},"modified":"2019-01-03T15:37:22","modified_gmt":"2019-01-03T23:37:22","slug":"releasing-resolutions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lightbearers.org\/blog\/releasing-resolutions\/","title":{"rendered":"Releasing Resolutions"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>It\u2019s the New Year. Time to make plans to lose weight, learn a new language, become a new you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just look on Instagram and you\u2019ll find people who can teach you how to accomplish your dreams (and make smoothie bowls and other life-transforming stuff). I\u2019m not one of those people, but I do have one tip on how to <em>approach <\/em>your new year goals:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Hold them all lightly<\/em><em>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>God likes it when we dream big for Him, when we make goals and plans. Psalm 37 affirms that He wants to grant the desires of our hearts. But on the flip-side, Isaiah tells us God\u2019s ways are higher than our ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So how does it work? Does the Bible want us to chase our dreams or not?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Last January, I entered the new year with a dream in my heart. I didn\u2019t see how it could happen, but I couldn\u2019t let go either. I tried politely asking the dream to leave. The dream was like, \u201cYeaaaaahhhhh, um, I don\u2019t think so.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Hold them lightly enough that, if necessary, you\u2019ll let them disintegrate so God can place something better in your hands.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Eventually I decided to give the dream a chance. I felt God leading me to it. Soon my dream and I were exploring how to make it a reality. It was scary, fun, confusing, empowering, and beautiful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now 2018 has come to a close, and you know what happened? The dream didn\u2019t pan out. But in the process, my dream showed me things about myself I never knew. Along the way of pursuing it, I grew into more the person I want to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And I wonder if sometimes that\u2019s the point. Maybe sometimes God lets us pursue a dream, not for the dream\u2019s sake, but because the process is the real point. Or through the <g class=\"gr_ gr_6 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_disable_anim_appear Punctuation only-ins replaceWithoutSep\" id=\"6\" data-gr-id=\"6\">process<\/g> we\u2019ll discover the real dream.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Proverbs 16:9 says we plan our ways, but God directs our steps. As 2019 begins, walk in with this paradoxical resolution: to treat your dreams as though they\u2019re the most important thing in the world, but also like they don\u2019t matter at all. Hold them lightly enough that, if necessary, you\u2019ll let them disintegrate so God can place something better in your hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You might already know God\u2019s hopes for you this year. Or God might have a different idea. I don\u2019t know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just hold it all lightly, friend, and I do know you won\u2019t miss out.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s the New Year. Time to make plans to lose weight, learn a new language, become a new you. 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